Love Crafting 

The 12-Week Love & Desire Group Coaching Lab

For singles and couples alike ready to create lasting secure connection, (re)ignite desire, and build relationships that turn them on, emotionally and erotically, whether it’s been 10 months or 10 years.

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Welcome to Love Crafting

The 12-week online group coaching experience designed specifically for you if you’re ready to:

✔ Learn how to cultivate desire and excitement

✔ Meet your partner’s needs without losing yourself

✔Reignite erotic energy through understanding your desire type

✔Repair disconnection and rebuild trust

✔ Rebuild the confidence needed to thrive in your relationship and the bedroom

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you have never been one to settle in life,

so why settle in love?

You love your partner, but you’ve lost the spark.

You talk about connection more than you actually feel it.

Sex feels like work, conflict drains you both, and the safety you built has quietly replaced the aliveness you crave. Let’s get one thing clear:

There is nothing wrong with you. You aren’t broken and don’t need fixing.


You were just never taught how to create secure and passionate relationships! You’ve had to learn how to build safety, desire, and connection from scratch. And now, you’re ready to do it on purpose with the tools you never knew you needed to thrive in love and the bedroom.

The truth? You don’t need a new partner, you need a new way of relating and Love Crafting™ is here to help.

  • Testimonials

    "Amazing group experience. Craig is insightful and the group was a safe, nurturing but also challenging environment. Craig and the group helped me realize what it was I wanted and how I could begin to get it. Issues such as relationships, internalized biases, anxiety and vulnerability were explored thoroughly and the support has continued even after the group ended. So often queer men feel isolated, alone and lost in some way or another; this group is a way to come together and work through those things. Truly life changing experience." ~ Bryce

  • Testimonials

    “Working with Craig and the Queer men’s group coaching was a revelatory experience. Craig creates a very safe space from the get-go and holds space for the group to adjust and adapt to each other in order for the richness of the experience to take flight. This is not therapy, this is elevating and stepping further into your truth and power as a gay man. I loved that it was not so much about digging up the past as much as it was about stepping into your future self. It was the least intimidating boot camp-like 4-month program. It is challenging, enlightening, cathartic, and at times, very rewarding.” ~ David

  • Testimonials

    “In my opinion, it was truly one of the smartest financial investments I have made by myself/for myself, and I cannot wait to see the continued growth pay off in dividends. Craig is incredibly insightful; he is a true leader and helper. His skill set and thoughtfulness are what make the group so successful. The reassurance that he is always on your side rooting for you is quite comforting. The idea of group coaching/life coaching was foreign to me. After having been in therapy for much of my life; I found this to be a beautiful way to integrate what I already knew about myself while being equipped with the skills and tools to apply it to my life.

    As gay men, we need more pathways that embrace community and what Craig is doing allows for that to happen in such a beautiful and organic way.” ~ David

The Love Crafting™ Transformation

You won’t just learn about secure love.
You’ll become the lover who creates it, with ease, clarity, and erotic confidence.

  • Love Crafting™ is for you if you’re done pretending things are fine when they’re not.
    You might be:

    • Stuck in dating loops where connection always fizzles or disappears

    • In a relationship that looks good on paper but feels distant in practice

    • Longing for a love that’s both safe and electric, not one or the other

    • Performing through sex, people-pleasing your way out of true desire

    • Haunted by shame, rejection, or fear that you’ll never quite be enough

If you’re ready to stop settling for “almost,” this is where everything starts to shift.

After 12 sessions you Will walk away:

  • Secure in yourself and your love. You’ll know your patterns, your needs, and how to meet them without losing the spark.

  • Able to turn conflict into connection. You’ll stop looping through the same arguments and start using tension to build trust and intimacy.

  • Re-ignited in desire. You’ll understand what turns you on (and why) and how to keep erotic energy alive, no matter how long you’ve been together.

  • Co-creating instead of performing. You’ll replace people-pleasing and pressure with authentic expression that makes sex and love feel alive again.

  • Rooted in relational confidence. Whether you’re partnered or single, you’ll leave knowing how to design relationships that expand with you. secure, passionate, and true to who you are.

Love Crafting™ doesn’t just change how you love, it changes who you become in love. Confident. Capable. And with more much more ease in your relationship.

The Logistics

Love Crafting™ zoom calls will begin on November 4th, 7:00-8:00pm EST and will occur 3x a month for 4 months through February. (Time and Date subject to change based on participant availability)

What’s included:

12x60 minute group coaching calls
4x60 minute open Q & A’s (get any of your hot button relationship and sex questions answered once a month!)

Attachment Style & Desire Archetype Assessment

My personal Love Crafting™ method for building rebuilding secure and satisfying relationships you can share with your partner(s)

1x60 minute 1:1 call for additional personalized coaching and support.

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Life’s too short for bad sex, blue balls, and relationships that cause more stress than they do pleasure. It’s time you learned how to create the relationship of your (wet) dreams and I’m here to help.

Fill out the following form and I’ll be in touch to schedule a complimentary intake call to go over more of the details and answer any questions you have about the Love Crafting™ group coaching lab!

Meet Your Coach

Craig Cassey, MAPP

About Craig ™

I’m a queer executive life, relationship, and sex coach with a background in positive psychology and a mission to help ambitious gay men create relationships that actually turn them on.

For the past seven years, I have coached high-achieving men including entrepreneurs, doctors, leaders, and creatives who have mastered success in their careers yet still find intimacy, desire, or vulnerability harder to navigate. The truth is that success in the world does not always mean success in love. Most of us were never taught how to build relationships that feel both secure and electric.

That is why I created Love Crafting™, a 12-week group coaching lab for those who are ready to stop settling and start leading in love.

This is not about fixing what is broken or finding “the one.”
It is about becoming the kind of man who can hold emotional depth, communicate with clarity, and initiate desire without losing authenticity.

Through a blend of evidence-based tools, embodied practice, and bold self-leadership, Love Crafting™ helps you:

  • Unlearn old patterns that block intimacy

  • Reconnect to your pleasure and body

  • Build relationships that are secure, erotic, and true to who you are

Because passionate love isn’t something you fall into; it is something you craft, moment by moment.

🧠 What You’ll Learn + Embody

Each week is designed to help you shift from confused, anxious, or avoidant… to grounded, confident, and embodied in your own erotic and relational leadership.

Weeks 1–3: Uncovering Your Relational Programming & Self-sabotage

  • Unpack your relationship patterns + attachment style

  • Rewire old stories about love, sex, and worth

  • Get clear on what you truly desire (vs what you’ve been settling for)

Weeks 4–6: Relating Like a Secure Man

  • Learn to nourish your own security & communicate with confidence even when triggered

  • Explore secure boundaries + relationship agreements in bed and beyond that set you up for success

  • Learn to build connection without losing your erotic spark or sense of self

Weeks 7–9: Erotic Confidence + Pleasure

  • Uncover your internal desire type and how to use it for better sex

  • Heal sexual shame + become a confident, connected lover

  • Discover your erotic blueprint to sustain desire in long term relationships even during periods of stress

Weeks 10–12: Integration + Audacious Self-Leadership

  • Learn to “Love Craft” your relationship with (future) partners to be mutually satisfying, passionate, and supportive.

  • Step fully into your power as an erotic and relational leader & manage conflict constructively

  • Celebrate how far you’ve come, and boldly claim what’s next with clarity, confidence, and embodied direction

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